Okay friends, I’ve
been thinking of sharing this thought with you. To my fellow young people, both
young men and young ladies, it’s not all relationships that we’re in that is
tailored to lead us into marriage. There is power in relationships but the
specific definition of every relationship is the foundation on which the success
of that relationship can be maximized.
There are many kinds
of relationships- Professional/Work relationship, Family relationship, Business relationship, Intimate relationship (the
type that can led to marriage) and platonic relationship. Endeavour to keep
each relationship where it belongs. Work on yourself and get grounded in this
fact, understand it and take off in harnessing the power of the right
associations. The right relationships graduate us into the right networks and
the right networks gives rise to the right connections. Many people undermine
the power of networking. It’s a great tool for as many as want to get to the
next level of life with less sweat. Interact with people generally but also be
on the lookout to spot
who should to which relationship class. When you have
built these associations and networks, they now, like the splitting of a stream
into many parts, galvanize and crystallize into the types of relationships I
mentioned before. So at this point, endeavour to keep each relationship where
it belongs.
If you are vulnerable,
you will confuse these associations and misinterpret genuine care to mean
signals for intimate relationships. Be careful, don’t let your emotions be messed
up by someone who does not grade your relationship into the same class where
you are grading the same relationship. Keep every relationship where it
belongs. Don’t force people to love you or beg unnecessarily to be loved for I’m
not sure you have the energy to keep begging. Our world has over 6 billion
people, so you will definitely find a good number that will love you pretty
well if you associate well.
The truth is that all
of us need relationship and associations and networks. For intimate
relationships, the truth is that many people are lonely and hoping that someone
will come up to them and connect with them. Try not to belong to this class of
lonely people waiting to be connected with. Socialize, meet people, be
yourself, don’t compromise your ideals simply because you want to impress
someone. If that person doesn’t respect your resolve not to have sex until
marriage, someone else will love it; just find that person. If that person
doesn’t have your time but treats you like a bunch of thrash, weep not friend,
just love people genuinely for somewhere along the line, you may be surprised how
the love you once pursued will alight upon you. Permit me to borrow a line from D-banj’s song where he said, “Don’t
get it twisted, love is a beautiful thing.”
Remember to keep each
relationship where it belongs, work relationship, business relationship,
intimate relationship, platonic relationship and any other one you can think
of. Don’t fall victim to people’s pranks. Finally, Be yourself, Stay Bold, Stay
Courageous, May God give you the wisdom to keep your relationships and
associations where they belong!
Warmest Regards!
D-Motivator.
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