WHAT DO THEY SEE?

Every passing moment, we make certain impressions on people, whether we know it or not. The way we speak, the way we dress and even our colour combinations say a lot about us. Be careful what you’re doing so you don’t send the wrong signals or attract the wrong people. Oftentimes, every cause is caused by a cause.

Our people say a river does not drown someone who did not come for a swim. When people look at you, what do they see? As a young man, do they see a sagged trouser or an ear ring or a tattoo or do they see a corporate personality, a leader, a role model or any other thing. For a young lady, do they see a shouting make-up, an exposed cleavage or a glistering Mary-Kay? Or do they see a decent young lady with the right combination of ideals and modest fashion?

When you look at many people, especially ladies, they are lost in the make-up they are wearing. You don’t see them first; you see the make-up first before you see them or you notice their exposed boobs or back side, leaving nothing to imagination. In that way they’ve shown the world everything they’re made off. That tells the world a lot without words. Don’t pretend not to care; the first impression people have when they look at you might be, “He knows where he’s going or she’s unserious or any other thing according what they see first.

Are you wondering why people react the way they do to you? It could possibly be that they’re reacting the way they perceive you. Check up yourself; when people look at you , what do they see? When people have stayed with you for a while, what impression do you rub off on them? Do you make them happy or do you feel them with gloom?

Do not complain when people look down on you and treat you shabbily, it could be that you look down on yourself or that you lack self confidence. Remember, the sum total of your personality flows from within you. When you correct and purify the source of flowing water, the water will naturally become good.

The sum total of people’s reaction to you may depend a whole lot on the totality of your personality- your actions and your inactions. Be bold and make the analysis, what do people see when they look at you?